My dress for my friend's wedding!

This is a dress I bought to go to a friend's wedding. It is from Bebe.
I know black is not a wedding color but I like a lot the gold and the laces. I also figure out that I also wanna stand out in the wedding. Isn't it what fashion people do, try to stand out anywhere they can?

FYI: I am not wearing the accessories that I will wear on the D-day!